Trials Of Life

	



  


    

  
  

    
Never Give Up!

  
  

    


 



Life is a trial for us, a test. It is our choice what we would do with our life and how.

There is always some choice we have regardless of the circumstances even beyond our control.

I have felt that many times in my life but now that feeling becomes stronger and stronger and leaves me less and less.


Let’ say, for the sake of an argument, you are about to be executed. Your torturers can say whatever they want and do alike, you, still, have your freedom in your mind to say what you want and do what you choose. Compliance or defiance are yours.

They have no power or means getting to your thoughts and changing your mind.

They can only control your body. 
They can, even, forcefully push your fingers to squeeze a trigger of a gun to kill another human being. Yet, when you resist mentally and make your choice, your choice would be such. 
The fingers that pull the trigger are out of your control then and you are not doing it on your own.
 Your fingers are forced but you are not. Only your mental decisions made under your will are real. The rest is not your choice or decisions and the Cosmos knows trhat.

So you have, virtually, the power of a God to make your mental choice. 
That is power beyond imagination.

You have your free will. You do and that is god-like quality.

Yes, many things are predetermined in life and you know that.

How many times, you tried something and no matter what, still, encountered a certain situation. 
Whatever you did, it followed you.
So some things you can’t change. But you can change how you react to those things.

There must be a lesson why you are followed by those situations.

So discover the cause of that and, then, do the right thing.

Only by discovering the right thing and doing it, your consciousness is freed from the slavery of the wrong. You can say, then, that you found the truth and followed it by actions. 
You did what was correct and just – not in your opinion, but by truth and in truth.

The rest is beyond your control. But always do what is within your control.

Your opinions don’t matter so are mine and everyone’s else. Only truth matters in the Universe. 


People can play tricks with your mind trying to convince you that truth doesn’t exist.
 But even there they contradict themselves by pushing their nonsense onto you as truth. If truth is nowhere to be found, why they bother telling you anything and even doing so hard trying to convince you?


Life is a trial and the trial is here and now. Don’t wait for any judgements of you later. Life is judging your thoughts and actions every moment and gives you the verdict by the consequences of your decisions.

You can, even, say, you judge yourself, actully your consciousnes does. Whatever you cause in this world comes back to you as an effect.
 So don’t blame any one when make your own decisions. Only when things are beyond your control, you do not bring that onto yourself and such things-events are under the power of the circumstances.

Yet, again, ask yourself sincerely, was there something before that might have led to predicament?

If know for a fact, that have done nothing to cause that, then accept the situation as some test not a punishment but a severe test to make you stronger and give you some opportunity later that you are not aware of now. 
That opportunity may be so great that you may thank the stars for putting you through all that trouble.
 If know, you have caused the situation, then correct it.
Many people believe that we pay for what we have done in previous lives and advocate the reincarnation. 

They say that we lived many lives and each next one is a continuation of the previous depending on what we have done before.

I do not have the answer to that. 
I only write what I know and feel in my heart.
 I refuse to repeat what is not clear to myself.

Reincarnation solves all the questions about the seeming injustice when a concept of paying for the wrong done in the previous lives is introduced. 
Reincarnation explains everything related to the, so called, injustice so well. But just because it explains why we go through what we go, but, I don’t, still feel, that explanation in my core, I refuse to comment on that further until realize enough to do so.

I can only say what I feel deeply. I don’t care about my surface things and don’t’ bother bringing them to your attention. 

Whatever is going on in your life, as much as you suffer at times, hold on, don’t despair.
 Fight for your place in this world. You were  born. So it was meant to be for you to come in this world. 
You belong here. Do not give up. Find your purpose for being here then.

Everything has a purpose. So do you.

You are an important part of the Universe; otherwise the Universe would have not bothered giving a space and dedicating time to you in its domain. It has chosen you to be here. Cherish that.

Find you true origin. Find your, true name under the stars. 
They witnessed your birth and saw every moment of your life.
Be grateful for being given a chance to think, feel, make your choices. Life is tough but fair.

Fight for your place under the stars. 
But fight fairly the way those shining stars do. 
They do not take place of another star or intrude on any other object in space. They know their place and shine there. 
They emit their rays and don’t expect anything in return.
 They give you their light but ask for nothing from you. Learn from them. 
Find your space in this world. They will guide you.
Just make sure you do not take space that doesn’t belong to you.
 Do not push other people off their orbits. They have a right to revolve on theirs.

Give light and kindness to others but don’t expect anything in return. 
That is hard, I know but look above you. 
Look how those millions of stars in space do that every second and they live for millions of years.

Shine, shine, be fair to people, to life in general. 
Become kind and caring. Don’t allow yourself to be taken advantage of; for, many people would try. 
Be wise. But don’t be afraid to get hurt. 
Keep trying. Give kindness and that would come back to you sevenfold.

I just know that. I really do.
I go what you go through: up and down and up again. I have my moments of doubts. 
I have moments when feel like I don’t want to live anymore.
What do I do? I go home, sit in front of my computer and start writing what I feel and what I know would help others who go through the same. I try to give. 
By doing that, I gain a purpose and meaning.

Start doing something positive too if have not began already. that would bring a meaning in your life. Positive, virtous concepts always bring meanig and hope. Negative, selfish, wrong concewpts always subtract from you and take you in te lower, darker regions of your mind. Your choise where you would like to go: up to light and warmth or down to darkness and cold?

Like you, I go through pain of all those things that surround and overwhelm me sometimes. 
I feel like bleeding inside at times. 
If you only knew….

I am not on a pedestal. But, I try to do something about my situations positively. 
I really try, fail and try again, fall and get up.

I have no right to do otherwise. I have no right to share with you what I don’t practice myself. 
How would you believe me then?
I have an obligation before myself and you, by putting myself in the situation of writing before the world, to practice what I preach so to say. 
I have no right to fail under such, double obligation.

People are more likely to believe what works than utopia.

I can tell you one thing: millions of people go through the same.

We are all not that different. Wish well to all those people who are lost at those moments and send them wishes to gain composure and they would feel your care. Send those thoughts consciously and purposefully. 
They would feel them all one day.

Somebody must have send such thoughts and I have felt them……

I felt so much, that, one day, I sat in front of my computer and started writing and it is growing. So many people wrote before and such great people that I felt embarrassed to begin overwhelmed by their depth. 
But, then I felt that it doesn’t matter what was before when one has a sincere desire to write about real life and what can help them: the common sense, truth, and virtues.

Believe, try, and it would happen, whatever it is as long it is from your heart and in the right direction.
When I feel I helped someone by sharing and bringing the common sense and the laws of cause and effect through the incredible power of the Internet, when people around the world tuning in to different sites like to radio stations, I feel joy and purpose.
 By giving, by writing to the sunrise at times after coming home from my work, I deprive myself of some things and pleasures but I also bring virtues onto myself. 
I welcome them and sweat for them. That would make me a better man.

I am asking the Universe to show me my purpose and direction so that I can apply myself with all the power I am gaining.

I wish you to find your direction and apply yourself to do good to yourself and others and to find the true meaning in you life.

Whatever you do, know you are not alone. We all go through the same. 
Different tests but the same concepts.













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Never give up. Never. There is meaning in life just discover it.
I do what I can and share what I can. 

Extend that to someone else in your, own way. If you sincerely look for your way, you will find it.

Make a fundament for your life as if constructing a great castle to be erected.
Patience should be one of the first pillars you put in the fundament of your life's castle.

Patience allows you to wait until life would give you the answers if you can’t see them for some reason. It will give them.

Patience would save you from doing the wrong things under the emotions. Emotions can take you in the wrong direction.
You goal should be going in the right direction only.


Kindness - another huge pillar. Be kind. Kindness must be in your fundament.

Only human beings with good intentions can become kind. There is no other way.  Right intentions open the doors to the right direction. If you go in the right direction, you would get to you destination – the correct destination. The worst thing is getting in the wrong place at the wrong time; for; only the wrong things can happen there. So you save yourself and help yourself by being kind
as well as help others. That is so logical. What can be better than both sides benefiting at the same time?

Put forgiveness - the super-pillar of them all in your fundament. Forgiveness is the power that digs you out of debris that buries you when you do wrong things.
Forgiveness shots the door in front of the nose of the torturing thoughts that drain you and put a curtain over the shining light of the future and happiness.

When you don’t forgive, you dwell on the past experience and re-live all the pain again and again. By forgiving, you help yourself not any less than the person who did wrong onto you. You become free from that painful past. Give up that pain or it would continue destroying your body and mind. Mental pain produces toxins and poisons in your body physically. You poison yourself, you.
That can be easily measured.

Your immune system is directly affected by stress. Nothing functions normally under stress. You are out of tune then.
You have nutrients and oxygen delivered by the blood to every cell of you body. Under pain, physical or emotional, doesn’t matter, one become the other sooner or later, your body contracts. Muscles involuntarily squeeze as if thousands of pythons put their deadly coils around you.

These invisible pythons squeeze life out of you. Blood vessels become constricted. Like rubber pipes, which are squeezed hard and can barely pass water along them, squeezed by tension blood vessels can barely pass oxygen and nutrients to the cells of your body.
The cells starve, they begin to decay literally. You are rotting inside out when you don’t forgive the most. Unforgiveness is the longest out of all pains. Physical pain you can forget quickly; unforgiveness can linger for life.

Waste products, toxins, CO2 can’t be washed away from your cells.

The vessels like clamped pipes are constricted. That is how you get poisoned. That is why people who are under prolonged stress begin to smell. They may wash themselves regularly and still have an unpleasant odor.

By forgiving, you release that stress. You are not upset anymore over the issue so you get rid of the corresponding stress-vampire sucking life out of you.
 The bigger is the python - the bigger is its power. The release is equally powerful. 
Muscles and blood vessels are only constricted under a contraction. Once stress is illuminates, there is no contraction of the tissue. The pythons release their coils.

By forgiving, you grab thousands of pythons inside your body by the throat and they must release their grip. Now they are choking and dying since you stop giving stress its energy and food, Your hate and unforgiveness is that food. Now, the pythons of stress are starving. You cut of their oxygen. You hold their throat tight. They got the taste of their, own medicine.

Become forgiving and you would allow your mind to think clearly and body and all cells to breathe normally.

Patience, kindness, and forgiveness must be already in the castle of your life.

Add the other three super-pillars: Faith, Hope, and Love and your castle would build and not on sand, clay, or paper but on the powerful monolith of virtues. Anything built on virtues can withstand any kind of storm – life’s storm.

Money? Can loose one day.
 Weapons? May be in a place where they are not allowed and scanners are ready.

Friends? Some only pretend to be such and have a tendency to betray.

A spouse? Blessed if he or she is a virtuous one. If not, you never know what he or she can pull on you one day.

Virtues are yours and belong to you only and would never betray you if you put them as the fundament of you life’s castle.

Virtues can't betray - they are virtues. They are incompatible with betrayal and the other way around. Pure logic and common sense.
Embracing virtues or not is within your control – other things and beings are not.

You embrace virtues, they embrace you. If you embrace hate, lies, manipulations, they would embrace you too.

Which company do you prefer? You, yourself, choose that company - it is completely your choice. It comes from your mind and no one can get there.
Do you see now that all your troubles have come from embracing the wrong things? Observe the laws of nature and logic and learn to what to open doors, to what to close. What to embrace and what to deny. Don't complain if a python-stress is choking you. You gave it a hug first. It only hugs you back a bit more than you can handle but its nature is such: to constrict its coils.
 Pythons don't know anything else. Don't blame them. They follow their laws. It's up to you to follow those under which you were created. The pythons are honest to themselves and even you. It's up to you to know what to expect from whom and whom to embrace.

If you, for example, embrace money too much, become greety, you would discover that there is pythons of greed as well. A different color of a python but the same nature and familiar coils. They choke well. Some people are choked by greed all their life and still don't wake up.

The most educated ones and, the so called, intelligent men and women are highly prone to that. Their intelligence as they know it doesn't save them. There is no good energy in greed - only stress and negativity. Wealth is good - greed is a python with awesome coils.

Only virtues and noble qualities can save you from the inner pythons and bring light and life to you. Making choices is so crucial.

You, literally, choose what and whom to embrace: that of light or that of dark. You add the rest of the picture.
The six virtues described above are the minimum pillars that must be in your castle to support it.

Anything less would make it crumble under the first strong life’s storm. Others can be and should be added but without these, no right direction is possible.

I am not the first who rediscovered them and not the last. You are not the first to read them and understand their importance and not the last.

So follow that basic, common sense and never give up regardless of what happens in life. Start erecting the pillars of your castle to make it a Kindom one day.

If you feel miserable, that only proves that there are no essential blocks in the fundament of your survival. When the suffering already yells in your ear, “wake up, put the real blocks of strength in your fundament" listen to that, inner voice. You feel weak because you put weak blocks before and no pillars. 
Your state of mind is the proof. So start putting the real blocks of strength: Patience, Kindness, Forgiveness and strengthen them with Faith or Belief in something positive and good, then add Hope, and Love. 

Love means giving from yourself for the sake of doing the right and noble thing without expecting anything in return. Only that is love, anything else – an imposter.

True love is always noble, virtuous, and selfishless. Anything else is a use for self-gratification of your ego and body.
Any pain is a signal that something wrong is going on with you.

Otherwise, you would not have pain. So use pain as your ally who is trying to wake you up, showing you that you have gone in the wrong direction and made wrong decisions before it’s too late.

I wish you well and so do many others who don’t even know you but who also read in their search for truth and know exactly what you go through because they go through the similar expereinces on their own, level and search truth. 
The connection is the same and we are on the same wave…
We wish you to find your true direction and purpose in life. 
Wish that back to other people if you like. They would feel your support too. And start doing the right thing to yourself and others. Talking, reading is not enough. Actions count so begin….
Chances are not given forever.

The worst thing is to be willing to change something and Mr. Final Effect born out of the mama  - Cause puts a huge sign in front of your face – “Too Late!”

Don’t wait for that. Begin as soon as realize.

And thank the pain for helping you to realize. It has been trying so hard to help you to wake up by pinching you more and more and you didn’t pay attention. But it tried to warn you.

And it did you a big favor by putting a sign, “Feel me and wake up!” 
 If Mr. Final Cause would put his huge sign –that is a tragedy!

So thank pain and release it.











  
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