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Do looks equal being great?
Evolution or Devolution?
  
  

    


 

So often and so many people say by looking at a woman with a gorgeous appearance, "You are so beautiful, you are so great!”

But is she so beautiful and great and what these terms mean in reality?

She or he, always, consists of the inner and outer parts. Those could be divided further but, staying on the subject, let’s examine these two: the outer and inner.

In order to be correct, we should only say what we know for sure.

We see a good-looking physical appearance, then, we can reflect on that. Yet, if we don’t know the inner part: the qualities of character, then we must not comment on that.

Therefore, we should say that a person has a beautiful or handsome physical appearance and add nothing else. We can use different terms according to the level of perfection but the meaning remains the same. Do not comment more than know.

Many beautifully looking people have horrible personalities and even may be close to being evil. That's a reality. What is so “great” and “beautiful” about that?

Only when you know that the person, also, has a beautiful soul or character, you may say that the person is beautiful or great indeed.
Never forget that a person is comprised of the inner and outer.

 When men start catering to women and spoil them just because of their appearance, such women begin degrading and their evolution as of human beings becomes devolution or a slide.

Nothing could be worse for any one to be spoiled and have the inner growth stunted. Such people are handicapped spiritually or emotionally. Poor creatures.

Have you seen, so called stars, that are in love with themselves and their beauty is the meaning of their life?
 How they act, the energy projected is jus beyond being funny at times. A normal person would be disgusted by their vibes.

Listen to the stars’ views and outlooks on life. They can talk for hours without mastering any meaning. 
 That takes some skills.
I mean some stars. I didn’t say all are like that.

I am making a point here. The true person is a combination of the character and appearance and they can’t be separated.

When men spoil women, the latter become spoiled indeed just like spoiled children. Would you eat spoiled food for example?

No, you would avoid that. Why is it different when it comes to spoiled people?

What happens to a being spoiled person?
Does the person become better? 







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When things are given without deserving them or working for them in some way, brains are not being used much.

So what, then, happens? Degradation! Only hardship, challenge, resistance give a chance for a person to grow and improve.

For example, you lift weights. You can master a certain weight.

Now, tell me how can you break that barrier and go farther and farther: by strenuous training and lifting more and more gradually or by doing nothing?

I know you get my point. That is, exactly, what is happening to gorgeous women to whom things are given without the former working for them and growing their character in the process.

If you want to destroy someone as a personality, you give to that person more and more and keep praising.
 A person would degrade so rapidly that your purpose would be achieved almost in front of your eyes.

Women, men all those who have striking appearances in particular: you got the beauty of the outside. Beautiful, more power to you, enjoy that, but don’t forget your inside. It is also you. 
So match that inside with your outside and you would become a beautiful person indeed.

As early as in deep childhood, a language should be watched and what and how is said to children. If you want to raise a normal person out of a good looking child, treat him/her normally.
 Don't put him/her on a pedestal. Children learn and absorb quickly.

Admire beauty but don't destroy your children's' inner growth. 

Women, when you see men going crazy over your beauty, relax. 
They go crazy over all other beauties as soon as see them. So what's the deal with that pride you get?
 Whatever they tell you and give you, the same men would tell and give to others who catch their attention.
 Or you believe it is only you they want and no one else? Do you believe they see no other beauty after discovering yours? 

Only a person who truly loves you would love only you but that has the roots in virtues and not only the looks.

Anything based on looks is temporary and deceiving. Enjoy them; yet built your, inner kingdom - your real fundament that is yours forever!
 One day, that inner beauty would come outside too but in a different way.
Always look for a complete harmony - not one side only. 
True harmony is the whole!










  
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